Old West Durham Walk

 

Old West Durham —Image of The Common Market 

Old West Durham Walk: The Common Market, Parlour (Junior), and Local Finds on Hillsborough Road

On a 78-degree, overcast January day, I walked Old West Durham and finally stopped into a few Hillsborough Road spots I’ve driven past for years—proof that parking and walking change what you notice.


January 10 in Durham: the kind of “winter” day that makes you walk and explore. 

Today had big “North Carolina winter refuses to commit” energy—warm, gray skies, and weirdly perfect for being out in the world.

It was also one of those days where work and life blended in the best way:

  • I met with past clientsand we had the kind of real conversation people have when listing starts to feel real: timing, prep, what matters, what doesn’t, and the emotional part nobody puts on the checklist.

  • I talked with a new first-time buyer, which always reminds me how brave it is to start—especially when you’re trying to make a smart decision in a market that doesn’t exactly hand you a user manual.

  • And then I got to do my favorite kind of reset: a walk-and-catch-up with a friend who lives nearby… and the funny part is, even though she lives close, we both realized we’ve been guilty of the same thing—driving past places for years and never walking in.

Walking fixes that.


Old West Durham, Durham, NC: history you can feel on a sidewalk

Old West Durham is one of Durham’s older neighborhoods and was once known as Pin Hook, a small settlement that existed before Durham became the railroad town we know today. For more details on the history, go to Old West Durham.

It’s the kind of area where you notice the details when you slow down: older streets, mature trees, front porches that look like they’ve hosted actual conversations, and houses that feel like they’ve been paying attention for a while. (If you’ve ever wondered why some neighborhoods feel instantly “lived-in,” it’s not magic. It’s sidewalks + porches + time.)


Where we stopped in Old West Durham (Hillsborough Road area)


The Common Market (finally!)
I have driven past The Common Market on more occasions than I’m comfortable admitting. Today I actually went in like a responsible adult who lives in Durham. It’s a deli + coffee bar + bar + market kind of place—built to feel like a neighborhood living room, not a quick errand. Loved the option for indoor and outdoor seating. I had green tea. The service was nice.

The Parlour Junior (local favorite, walk-up window) 

Tucked right at The Common Market is The Parlour Junior, a walk-up scoop window serving a smaller menu—scoops, shakes, toppings—and it’s absolutely one of those places that turns a “quick walk” into “we should get ice cream because it would be rude not to.”

Quickly Tea House (boba mission, activated) 

Another spot I’ve driven by forever: Quickly Tea House. It’s locally owned, and their site literally calls it “Durham’s Original Boba Tea Shop,” which made me feel both excited and slightly behind schedule. I'll be back.

Cocoa Cinnamon (always a crowd-pleaser)

I also have a soft spot for Cocoa Cinnamon, and it’s worth noting there are three Cocoa Cinnamon coffee shops in Durham—reliably good, reliably busy, and perfect when you want a meet-up location that won’t disappoint. I started my day with meetings at the Geer Street location. 

Smitten Boutique (style + humor, in the best way) 

Adding Smitten Boutique to the list because it’s one of those places that keeps Hillsborough Rd feeling like Hillsborough Rd: women’s boutique, gifts, and an unmistakably local personality. 

Tiny (because “I’m just looking” is a lie), I didn't capture a shot because I was so tempted to play. 

And while we’re talking about local favorites: Tiny on Ninth Street is a classic—kids’ boutique, gifts, and the kind of place you pop into for “one thing” and leave with three things you didn’t know you needed.

Trent & Hill (plus my “what used to be here?” mystery) 

We passed Trent & Hill, too—an event venue right there on Hillsborough Rd. I cannot remember which restaurant used to be in that spot, but I remember it was good, which is both helpful and completely unhelpful. If you know what it was, tell me.


Coming soon in Old West Durham: Hops & Flower and Jean’s By the Sea

Two new openings I’m watching:

Hops & Flower

Hops & Flower is a modern neighborhood bodega concept planned for 2014 Hillsborough Road (next to Vin Rouge). The folks behind Luna are opening it, and, side note: if you have not tried the Peruvian chicken and spicy bacon collards at Luna, add them to your list. I need to try more of their menu, but I always go back to the same things. 

Jean’s By the Sea 

Jean’s By the Sea (formerly the Wimpy's Grill space) is calling itself a neighborhood fish shack, opening in 2026 at 617 Hicks Street in Durham.

I fully plan to check it out when it opens—purely for professional neighborhood research, obviously.


The real point of the day: walking shows you what driving hides

Here’s what I keep learning (and re-learning): you notice more on foot than you ever will driving by.

Walking shows you:

  • how the neighborhood moves (quiet? social? dog-walk central?)

  • where people gather

  • the porch life, the sidewalk life, the “oh wow, I’ve never seen that before” life

Walking a neighborhood tells you what a drive-by never can—the pace, the porch life, and the everyday details you miss when you’re just passing through. It’s also why I always encourage buyers (and future sellers) to slow down and really feel an area before making big decisions.

And honestly, it makes me better at my job. Because a home isn’t just the house—it’s how you live around it.


Your turn

Quick question: What’s one Durham spot you’ve driven past forever but still haven’t tried? Where should I explore next in the city I love and call home? 


From “Don’t Touch” to Tree Skirt

 


Somewhere along the way, I decided I wanted this quilt to see the light of day. It’s a riot of color—deep reds, purples, blues, paisleys, stripes, and patterns going every which way. My great-grandmother on my dad’s side made it from men’s ties, after asking the men at her church to hand over the ones they were no longer wearing. From what I’ve learned, the ties in this quilt are probably from somewhere between the 1940s and 1970s, when wide, bold neckties were having their moment. She took those retired ties, sliced them into strips, and stitched them into this dazzling, starburst-style quilt that feels like it’s humming with stories.

For the last few years, I’ve used it as our Christmas tree skirt. It feels a little rebellious and a lot right. There’s something beautiful about all those old church ties, once worn to Sunday services and weddings and funerals, now circling the base of a tree full of new memories. Growing up, my mom was very protective of the quilt—in the best way. She wanted to keep it safe so it could be passed down. I like to think that if she were here, she’d see it under the tree, smile, and say, “Well… I guess that is a pretty special occasion.” I honestly believe she’d come around and be delighted that the quilt is a Christmas tradition—no longer tucked away in a closet, but right in the center of the celebration.

This year, I treated my real estate clients to family mini photo sessions. I wanted to give them something that doesn’t just live on a phone or in a camera roll, but can be printed, framed, and passed around. Where my great-grandmother repurposed old ties into something beautiful, my hope is that these photos become the modern equivalent of an heirloom quilt—something that tells the story of a family, a moment, a home.

~ Stacie

What Buyers & Sellers Worry About — and How to Tackle It

 

Buying or selling a home is one of the biggest financial decisions most people ever make — so it’s no surprise that fear creeps in. The good news? Every fear has a fix when you have the right plan and the right guide.

Buyers’ Top Fears

  • Overpaying → A Comparative Market Analysis (CMA) shows what homes are really worth so you can make confident offers.

  • Hidden Problems → Home inspections protect you and give options to repair, negotiate, or walk away.

  • Financing Falling Through → Getting fully pre-approved (not just pre-qualified) reduces surprises and strengthens your offer.

  • Regret → Defining “must-haves” vs. “nice-to-haves” keeps decisions clear and stress-free.

Sellers’ Top Fears

  • Not Getting the Price They Want → Pricing right from the start attracts more buyers, leading to stronger offers.

  • Home Not Selling Quickly → Professional staging, marketing, and exposure create momentum.

  • Repair Requests → Buyers often ask, but you’re not required to fix everything. We’ll negotiate fairly.

  • Deals Falling Apart → A proactive agent monitors every step to prevent delays and keep contracts moving.

Fear loses its power when you have clear information and a trusted advocate on your side. That’s where I come in — to guide you through each step, keep surprises to a minimum, and help you make the best decisions for your future.

Contact me today to discuss your options — whether you’re buying, selling, or just weighing the possibilities.

~Stacie Dye (919) 475-9460

 

Ways to Come Up With a Down Payment

One of the biggest hurdles for buyers isn’t finding the right home—it’s coming up with the down payment. The good news? With a little creativity and planning, you may have more options than you think. Here are a few ideas to consider:

1. Automate Your Savings

Set up a separate account just for your down payment and automate a transfer each payday. Even small, consistent amounts add up faster than you realize.

2. Cut & Redirect

Review your monthly spending. Could you pause a subscription, cook at home more often, or put a hold on that extra streaming service? Redirect even $100–$200 a month toward your down payment fund.

3. Side Hustles & Seasonal Work

From tutoring to pet-sitting to holiday retail shifts, a short-term side hustle can turn into thousands saved in a year.

4. Leverage Gifts or Loans from Family

Some loan programs allow family gifts to count toward your down payment. If your family is willing and able, this can be a meaningful way to get a jump start.

5. Employer or Community Assistance Programs

Check if your workplace or local organizations offer homebuyer grants. Many cities and counties have down payment assistance programs for first-time buyers.

6. Tap Into “Hidden” Assets

Consider selling items you no longer need, such as unused furniture, electronics, or an extra car. Many buyers fund part of their down payment with yard sales, Facebook Marketplace, or consignment.

7. Explore Lower Down Payment Options

You don’t always need 20%. FHA, VA, and some conventional loans allow as little as 3–5% down. Pairing these programs with your savings can make homeownership more achievable sooner than you expect.

8. Consider a Home Equity Line of Credit (HELOC)

If you already own a home and have built up equity, a HELOC may allow you to borrow against it for your next down payment. This strategy isn’t for everyone—but when used wisely, it can be a bridge to your next purchase.

To wrap it all together, here’s one more thought. Building a down payment may feel overwhelming, but breaking it down into smaller, manageable steps makes it more achievable. With the right strategy—and the proper guidance—you can get there. I’ll be glad to recommend one of my preferred lenders for you to discuss your options with. Contact me today to start the conversation.

~Stacie Dye (919) 475-9460

Reunited and it feels so Good!

 

Reunited, and it feels so good were the lyrics I started singing when Delta delivered my luggage to my home. This was a 1978 hit by Peaches and Herbs (google it), and I laughed when it came to mind. Isn't it amazing how our brains recall lyrics, events, quotes, and stories?

I just experienced one of the best real estate conferences in the past 18 years (Peak Experience with Brian Buffini -More to come). I thought about how my luggage was tied into the Customer Service we all hope to deliver in business. I had 6 flight delays and 1 flight cancellation. When I say that some people were huffy at the airport, that would be an understatement. It's annoying when things inconvenience us; however, my perspective was different. I was intrigued by the customer service I witnessed. Traveling is a privilege and can be challenging. Thank you, Delta, for not flying me home through tornados and hail. Thank you for keeping your employees and us safe. Thank you for keeping me informed throughout the process. Thank you for delivering my luggage on two separate trips as it arrived. Isn't that what we all want? I thanked the representative when I stood in line to ask about my flight options. He stopped, looked me dead in my eyes, and smiled with a big exhale. He said you're the first thank you of the day. He said I've been waiting for just one thank you because I usually get at least one. It was 10PM, and I don't know when his shift started. I heard the unreasonable criticism and harsh language he endured before me. I watched him be the ultimate professional, speaking calmly and with an assuring tone. He did a great job under high pressure. Come on, people! Good Customer service is not always the standard these days. It hurts me to say that, and I always want to give credit to those who honor it. It also encourages me to improve my business and services. 

I lost the only jacket I packed at the Broadmoor in Colorado Springs. The locals told me to wear layers, and I did. They said if you don't like the weather, it will change in 15 minutes, and that seemed to be the case. That morning, it was cold; that afternoon, it was in the high 80s. I don't remember losing clothing before, but I got startled when my home alarm went off (tech issue) and left my jacket. I realized it several hours later and reported it to the hotel. I described it, and they said it was secure. They could not deliver it then, and it was secure, so I couldn't pick it up. They asked where I would be at 7PM. I told them I planned to attend a networking dinner and gave them the restaurant's name. The security officer of the hotel delivered my jacket before the appetizers arrived. Wow! The Broadmoor provided exceptional customer service then and throughout the conference. 

These situations and the conference have made me question how to enhance my company standards and customer service. What do you need as a Seller or Buyer that is beyond my current business plan? I want to know the best ways to provide exceptional service. 

Travel tips: Take a picture of your bags and luggage receipt stickers. Use multiple luggage tags. The Velcro name tag was the only one returning on this trip. This is a great gift for those who travel. Place your name and details inside your bag. Use Airtags and check the batteries. Text yourself and your loved ones the airline code and flight number. It's the fastest way to preview flight changes. For the love of God, clean your luggage (especially the wheels) before bringing it inside your home. I like to use alcohol and magic erasers. Be Kind, or Stay Home! 😊


Celebrating working by referral!

 


I received this recognition in the mail a few days ago and have reflected on its meaning. When I started in Real Estate 17 years ago, I had no idea what the adventure would be. I was a burned-out social worker that needed a change. I have always loved working with people, looking at homes, architecture, and decorating. When I visited Durham in 2005, I didn't want to go home. I LOVED it and still do. I took a leap of faith by changing careers and moving to another state. Did I mention I didn't know anyone in NC or how to sell Real Estate? That didn't stop me!

The behind-the-scenes in our industry is that it can be isolating. It can be challenging if you are used to synergizing with others because of a scarcity mentality. I was introduced to other Real Estate Coaching companies early on and immediately felt panic at their suggested business approach. I was confident I needed help to grow and knew I would only excel at methods that resonated with me. I also wanted to avoid meeting strangers in empty homes, so I needed to figure something out quickly. 

In 2006 I was introduced to Brian Buffini through video and CDs. His approach was Working By Referral. He is a gifted Real Estate Coach who worked as a successful Realtor for years and now owns the largest Real Estate Coaching company, Buffini and Company. He shared a 5 Circle Approach to Life with an Irish accent (I'm sure that drew me in), including Spirituality, Family, Business, Finances, and Personal. I was all in! This made sense to me and gave me hope. 

Ten years ago, I took another leap of faith and signed up for Coaching. I'm a student for life, and anything I can do to help myself and others is still exciting. The best part of this long-term business commitment is the relationships along the way. Attending the events feels like a family reunion, even when meeting new people. I've met Real Estate Agents throughout the country that are now part of my network. It is a blessing to be around like-minded people that take time away from life to improve themselves, be authentic and vulnerable, and strive to compete with themselves instead of others. The general belief is there is an abundance of business opportunities available to us all, and we all have different goals and want different things. 

I'm so grateful to work 100% by referrals and appreciate your continued support of me and my business. There is no greater honor than for me to serve you, your family, friends, and colleagues. If you or someone you know can benefit from my services or need a referral in the US or Canada, contact me at (919) 475-9460. I'm here to help and appreciate the opportunity. 

~Stacie 

 




More than a Coffee...


Have you been to 321 Coffee in Durham yet? I walked in just before closing last week and was greeted with a smile and good coffee. The Downtown Durham location is exploding with new construction and activity. Parking was easy in the garage (small fee). I loved all the natural light pouring in and the clean, modern decor. However, my favorite part of the experience was the people. The shop is staffed by individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities who have a lot of love to give. I love this concept and look forward to going again! The sandwiches and sweet treats are from Ninth Street Bakery, a local favorite.